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Miriam Marlene Gonzales

How She Found Strength After Public Failure

Women reflecting on setbacks that happened in the spotlight and how they recovered.

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Public failure can feel humiliating; like everyone is watching you fall and silently deciding what you're capable of. For me, some of my biggest setbacks came from being told "no" over and over again; not getting hired when I knew I was qualified, having to start as a contractor for years before finally being brought on full time, and balancing career growth while raising a family. There were moments I questioned myself and wondered if I should give up and take an easier path. But instead of letting those moments define me, I chose to let them prepare me. I kept investing in my education, learning new skills, and showing up with excellence; even when no one was watching. I trusted that every closed door was building resilience, not rejection. Over time, those experiences shaped me into a stronger professional and opened opportunities I once thought were out of reach. Today, as a Feedstock Coordinator in a challenging industry, I look back and realize those "failures" were actually the foundation of my growth. My biggest lesson is this: public setbacks don't disqualify you; they refine you. Stay consistent, believe in yourself, and don't let temporary seasons stop you from long-term purpose.

Miriam Marlene Gonzales, Polymers Feedstock Coordinator, LyondellBasell